Love is a Verb

This post was written by my dear friend Russell Roberts.

Love, as taught in the Bible, is a verb, not an emotion. It is a choice, a determination to seek the benefit of another, even at the expense of ones self. It was supremely and graphically demonstrated on the cross when Jesus 'loved his disciples unto the end.' It is an amusing fact that we don't necessarily have to like those whom we choose to love. It is wonderful when those two ideas coincide but they don't always. The failure to understand this principle is the reason that most marriages fail. The chemicals in the brain that caused the excitement we once felt eventually wear off. Then, hopefully, we make the choice to love.

My pastor is fond of joking that the only thing that kept Peter's sword out of Matthew's back is that Jesus slept between them. For those who don't know, Peter was a Zealot, a patriot bent on overthrowing Roman oppression of the Jews. Matthew was a tax collector who, in effect, worked for Rome. Tax collectors were considered to be traitors. You can understand how there might be some animosity between them but you can rest assured that they loved each other. The characteristics of love are described in I Corinthians 13 in the Bible.

1Co 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind, it is not envious. Love does not brag, it is not puffed up.
5 It is not rude, it is not self-serving, it is not easily angered or resentful.
6 It is not glad about injustice, but rejoices in the truth.
7 It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never ends............

Love is a death to self. As such, love transcends life. That is what Christmas is all about. God loved his creation so much that he sent Jesus, gift-wrapped in swaddling clothes, to accomplish what nobody else had been able to do: To light the way for the rest of the world. From the cross Jesus shined forth like a beacon to humanity crying out "This is the Way". Jesus had every right to stay where he was in heaven with God the Father. He is equal with God. But Jesus understood his equality with God, not as a right to be exploited, but as something that uniquely qualified him for the task at hand, to save creation.

We Christians ought to think the same way. God, dwelling in us, is not a right to be exploited but uniquely qualifies us for the task at hand, to love as Jesus loved, to voluntarily offer our lives as a sacrifice on behalf of others. Merry Christmas my beloved blog readers!

Php 2:4 Each of you should be concerned not only about your own interests, but about the interests of others as well.
Php 2:5 You should have the same attitude toward one another that Christ Jesus had,
Php 2:6 who though he existed in the form of Goddid not regard equality with Godas something to be grasped,
Php 2:7 but emptied himselfby taking on the form of a slave,by looking like other men,and by sharing in human nature.
Php 2:8 He humbled himself,by becoming obedient to the point of death— even death on a cross!
Php 2:9 As a result God exalted himand gave him the namethat is above every name,
Php 2:10 so that at the name of Jesusevery knee will bow— in heaven and on earth and under the earth —
Php 2:11 and every tongue confessthat Jesus Christ is Lordto the glory of God the Father.